Thursday, April 2, 2015

27 Mar 15

“…it’s very sensual music …so loosen up…”

Hey, blogspot readers, it’s a global dance party for SouthSide’s first Friday night back around town!

Tonight, she’s getting her Reggae-world fusion with her new friend, Kreyol Roots at The Old Town School of Folk Music (inside the Szold Music & Dance Hall). However, for this exclusive adventure, she’s not only just listening and reviewing the music …she’s also grooving to a few new dance steps she learned blogspot readers.

So what really happens at a Global Dance Party? Well, besides meeting or making new friends, you get about thirty (30) minutes of real dance instruction to accompany the type of music you’re about to enjoy during the rest of the evening. So, it’s all about dancing …having some fun and a new learning experience. Tonight’s instructor before Kreyol Roots performed on “stage” was Margaret.

The dance instruction time consisted of loosening up the participants hips, stomach and butt with a few basic rhythmic African steps. One thing to know, blogspot readers, no prior dance experience is necessary …just the willingness to join the class and try something new and fun. And what a fun time it was! Moving the hips …shaking the bottom to the lively West African drumbeats …feeling the rhythmic spirit of the music until we were doing the dance steps on our own.

Now, that we were warmed up with our new dance steps, it was time for us to put the steps and music together while Kreyol Roots rockin’ the “stage”. This reviewer highly recommends checking out this local band’s eclectic fusion of guitar rock mixed with vibrant West African rhythms, Caribbean drums and melodic keyboard for soul. It’s the kind of music that truly encourages you to dance …not the just feel or listen to the music, blogspot readers, and you won’t be sitting on the sidelines too long. The rhythmic floetry kept SouthSide’s feet tapping to the beat and her hips swaying to the African sound. Don’t be afraid …the band wants you to feel your love for them and their music. Exciting …fresh and fun all around in which many of the participants (after some encouragement from the band) took to the dance floor. Yep, it was really a global dance party now! If you want to feel the sensual rhythms of world fusion that will keep you dancing, then SouthSide highly recommends checking out Kreyol Roots at the band’s next live performance. And you don't have to take SouthSide's word ...her teen daughter enjoyed herself though not wanting to dance. For more information, visit http://www.kreyolroots.com.

Other upcoming Global Dance Party events will feature Cajun music by Feufollet (on April 3), the rare combination of Calypso, reggae and acoustic instrumentation by Kobo Town (April 10) or music from Cuba’s Golden Age of the 40s and 50s by Los Perros Cubanos (April 24). For more information and tickets, visit http://www.oldtownschool.org.






 



Until next time, support your local scene,

SouthSide

Wednesday, April 1, 2015

April 2015

Hey, blogspot readers, SPRING is here and it's time to hit the streets ...roam around town and see a show (or few) as the weather and music scene heats up for a great summer of shows/events happening in Chicago and elsewhere...

All shows listed for April are 21+ unless noted otherwise.

Have fun!


April 1:
Double Door – Check out live performances by Jollys with Sex Snobs (from OKC), Post Animal and Basement Family.
8p / $5 adv / $7 dos

Smart Bar – [synthetic] with Boy Alberto and Lolly Gagger with B-Side (Unofficial Clean Bandit After Party)
10p / FREE

April 2:
Arcada Theatre – Rock out with Randy Bachman when he performs the music of BTO (Bachman-Turner Overdrive) and The Guess Who!
7:30p

Hideout – Check out the live performances by Van Allen Belt with Moritat and KO

Reggie’s Music Joint – It’s Katrina of Katrina & The Waves “Walin’ On Sunshine” fame who will be rockin’ this venue along with The Handcuffs and The Injured Parties.
7:30p / $10

April 3:
Double Door – Kick off your weekend by rockin’ with Mighty Fox, Soft Speaker, Common Shiner (catch this band before they leave the scene) and Hidden Hospitals.
$7 adv / $10 dos

Door No.3 – It’s Absolutely Not performing live with A Giant Dog (Austin, TX), Le Tour and Rat Hammer
FREE / 9p

Empty Bottle – Moon opens for Lieutenant and Yukon Blonde
9p / $15

The Endzone Bar & Grill (Aurora, IL) – It’s Ruptura, Sinister Fate and Vicious Attack rockin’ this stage.
9p / $6

April 4:
Reggie’s Rock Club – It’s a Record Fair that will feature the world’s only traveling record show with collectors of all ages.
11a – 4p / $3 / AA

The Diabetes Empowerment Center (Division and California) – Muevete! Move for Life season kick-off with raffles, refreshments, entertainments and physical activity for all ages.
12p / AA / FREE

David Yow will host the premiere of Records Collecting Dust – a documentary film about the music and records that changed our lives featuring sound bites from Jelio Biafra, Keith Morris, Nick Oliveri and more. A “Q & A” will follow the showing.
6:30p / AA / Donation for entry

Double Door – Attend the Adopt-A-Bulls …a PAWS Chicago Bull Breed Adoption Event featuring Danielle Colby of History Channel’s “American  Pickers” to raise awareness and save the lives of more than a dozen Bully Breed dogs.
12p / FREE

Double Door – The Chicago Outfit Roller Derby presents its annual Spaghetti Wrestling with DJ Vader and DJ All the Way Kay.
8p / $10 adv / $15 dos / $20 VIP

Durty Nellie’s – Get sauced, blogspot readers, with Hot Sauce Committee when they bring “Boy Band Night” to you …from NYSNC to Boys II Men, Justin Timberlake and more.

Underground Lounge – It’s pre-Easter rockin’ fun with Johnny Automatic, Butchered, The Winderness (Denver, CO) and Seasonal Men’s Wear at this Chicago Punk Show.

Bungalow Joe’s (Hanover Park, IL) – Badge brings all of its Cream-ness to the stage at this venue.

Elbo Room – Rock with Along The Parallel, Daylight Dawns and How To Fight Gods

April 5:
Thalia Hall – Hey, kids, check out this Easter Egg Hunt …prizes will be from Thalia Hall, Dusek’s Punch House, Knee Deep Vintage and more
12p / AA / FREE

April 6:
Piazza Di Porta Magglore Roma (Rome, Italy) – celebrate Pasqueta ComTram Tracks (Easter Monday with Tram Tracks)

Empty Bottle – Rock with Crown Larks Mines Record Release featuring Secret Means of Escape and Columba Fasciata
FREE

GRANDBAR – Get your fill of Libations with The Devilocks (Misfits tribute band), Goth Paul and Peter Propaganda
8p / NO COVER

April 7:
Elbo Room – Winnipeg-based singer/songwriter Sean Burns is releasing his 4 th album “Rocket Ships and Lemon Trees” and will appear at this venue with Kristopher Ulrich

Door No.3 – It’s going to be a HOT FABITAT birthday celebration with sets by resident DJs Adam El and Ldy Prblms with special guest (and birthday boy) Nevin Hersch (Berlin Nightclub) and drag performances by Lucy Stoole and Curlene Ribbon.
9p / FREE

Martyrs’ – Honey & the 45s will be opening for a funky Austin, TX band – Tbird & The Beaks! SouthSide has been told to warn you – bring your dancing shoes to this hot show.

April 9 – 23:
AMC River East 21 Theatres – 31st Chicago Latino Film Festival

April 10:
Auditorium Theatre – Spend “An Evening With The Roosevelts” starring Lorretta Swift and Ed Asner.

Fulton Street Collective (Fulton and Damen) – Guess what …”You’re A Piece of Work”! Simply show up with your work at 6p and then choose where your work will hang …network and socialize while enjoying live music, drinks and appetizers.
You must rsvp by April 8 at http://www.yapow2015.eventbrite.com.
Space is awarder – first come, first hang!

Double Door – Sweetwater Sessions will feature live performances by Old Shoe, The Way Down Wanderers, and Bones Jugs N Harmony
8p / FREE with rsvp on http://www.do312.com.

Door No.3 – It’s Soft Leather featuring DJ CJ National, Teen Witch Fan Club, Deathface and House of Szechuan.
10p / FREE

Wire (Berwyn, IL) – It’s Pink Floyd night with In The Flesh “the premier Pink Floyd tribute” band.

Underground Lounge – Armored Assault shares the stage with Act of Destruction, Crusade and Born Under Burden
8p / $7

Windy City Inn (2257 W. Irving Park) – This duo promises it will be “The Best F*cking Night of Your Life” featuring 3 live sets by Berto and The Lizard.

Martyrs’ – Rock out with The Future Laureates, Ay Oh, Jarryd Scott Steimer and Kiernan McMullan
8p / $10 adv / $12 dos

Liar’s Club – This Chicago Punk Show will feature The Tromatons, Get Up & Go!, The Timmys and 80 Proof Preacher

Cobra Lounge – It’s Feed Me To Monsters sharing the stage with Blackbox and Guardrail.

Dutch Inn West (Elgin, IL) – it’s High Priests along with Boxsledder, The Pastaways and Nine Eyed Lion rockin this stage.
8p / $5

The Mid – Rain Man makes his Chicago debut performance with a special guest.

Q Bar (Darien, IL) – Check out Frank Viele as he performs live with Allen, Mack, Myers and Moore.

Debonair Social Club – It’s Killwave, The Walking Shadows and Goodnight Criminals performing live on stage here.
8p show / 18+ / $10

Art Institute of Chicago - Attend this museum's  Aft Dark series featuring the exhibit "Ireland:Crossroads of Art & Design, 1640-1840" in the Modern Wing (enter at 159 East Monroe St) ...enjoy live DJ performances, complimentary appetizers and cash bar ...celebratory pint of Guinness and see the winning design of the Threadless "Shatter Rupture Break" challenge.
$30 GA / $20 members / $15 evening members
9p - midnight

April 11 & 12:
Rock Bar Theatre (San Jose, CA) – It’s Kirk Von Hammett’s Fear Fest Evil Carnival …this event will feature an authentic freak show, games and hearse car show (including Kirk’s ’36 Ford and crypt) as well as vendors all weekend long. Plus gore and metal guest panels and band signings featuring special appearances by Corey Taylor, Slash, Sara Karloff, Bela Lugosi Jr, Ron Chaney and many more
GA tickets are still available

April 11:
Local 130 Plumbers Union Hall - It’s the 13 th Annual CHIRP Record Fair and Other Delights.
8a – 10a Early admission ($25 with readmission allowed all day long)
10a Regular admission $7 (or $5 with a Records Fair flyer or ad)

Concord Music Hall – Get groovy with Papadosio featuring Alex Grey and Allyson Grey.
18+ / doors 8p

Double Door – Riotfest showcase will feature Show You Suck with Gut Rot and 100 Trill performing live at a rare ALL-AGES show inside this venue!
6p / $7 adv / $10 dos / AA

Milk Pail Banquets (East Dundee, IL) – Attend The  John Emerson Memorial and Benefit show featuring The Smoking Popes, The Mons, Rapids, The Turdles, The Bigger Empty, and Oil Can Boys.
6p / AA / 21+ to drink (with ID) / $20 donation

Tonic Room – The New Switcheroo (try saying that band fast five times) will be celebrating the release of their debut LP “Heartless Sky”

The Abbey Pub – It’s Covenant with The Labrynth and DJ Scary Lady Sarah at this venue.
7:30p / 17+ / $16 adv / $20 dos

The Burlington Bar – Rock  out with Control, The Idle Rich and Miles!

Harte's Saloon (Evergreen Park, IL) - check out this live performance by The Hot Jupiters!

April 12:
Jesse's Tavern (Chicago Ridge, IL) - It's Sunday Funday at this venue with Tom Leach & Friends featuring a Bloody Mary Bar with Kickstart and Craft Beer Tasting.
12p

April 13:
Door No.3 – Enjoy an evening of Bebop Jazz during this Thelonious Monday with DJ RB Green
7p / FREE

April 14:
Elbo Room – Celebrate Wormwood Collective’s 4 years of Poetry and Absinthe …here’s to more years of spoken word and performance art, blogspot readers!
FREE

April 15:
Double Door – Ghetto Youths International presents “Set Up Shop Volume 2” Tour featuring live performances by Cham, Wayne Marshall, Christopher Ellis, Jo Mersa, Black Am I and Simmer Down DJs
7p / 18+

April 16 – 19:
Various locations – Chicago International Movies & Music Festival featuring 99+ films, and 99+ bands within 4 days!
For tickets, visit http://www.cimmfest.org

Various locations – Lake FX Summit + Expo …a free 4-day event with networking opportunities, music and film showcases and much more.

April 16:
Old Town School of Folk Music – It’s “bring a book, take a book” Book Swap. The 1 st 100 swappers will get a Chicago Reader book tote …please NO dirty, musty, or torn books …NO legal, technical, encyclopedias, religious etc books
6p to 9p

Elbo Room – Free Spirited Inc presents “Free Beginnings” featuring live performances by The Omni Rose, Mike Zabrin and more
7p show / $10

April 17:
H.O.M..E. Bar (Arlington Heights, IL) – Model Stranger will open for Local H
8p

Underground Lounge – Rock out with Of Wolves, Faces of the Bog, Huntsmen and Snow Burial
9p / $5 adv / $7 dos

Cobra Lounge – Try handling this hot lineup if you can – Silver Abuse, Hotlips Messiah, Vortis and Cathy Santonies

The Green Room (The Abbey Pub) – Check out Matt Wilke’s Ghost, Andrew Robert Palmer and A Dozen Places performing here live.

Aragon Ballroom – GRIZ “Say It Loud” world tour featuring sets by Exmaq and Artifakts will be stopping here.

Reggie's Music Joint - Pale Green Stars bring their "The Things We Don't Talk About" tour 2015 and its brand of super high throttle punkadelic pandemonium ...and more to Chicago.

April 18:
Record Store Day …support your local record store …find great one-day only deals and in-store concerts!

The Ancona School (4770 S. Dorchester) – Attend the 3 rd Annual Diversity Symposium – Dimensions in Multicultural Education: Gender Identity & Expression, a symposium examining what can be learned by intentionally creating a diverse and inclusive learning community working for social change. The keynote speaker will be Dr. Brandon Hill, PhD, Executive Director Ci3, University of Chicago with Jane Merrill (Center on Halsted) and more.
$30 GA / $20 educators/students

Reggie’s Music Joint – Rock with Lucky Boys Confusion, Swizzle Tree, Mason’s Case, Bury Me In Lights, Unwed and Aly Jados
8p / 17+

Donald E. Stephenson Convention Center – Life In Color “The World’s Largest Pain Party” will feature Bingo Players, DVBBS and 3LAU
7p / 17+

Metro – Be fashionably seen while dancing til dawn at NOCTURNA …this Gothic spring event will feature the lovely mistress spinning EDM and more, DJ Scary Lady Sarah.
11p / 18+ / $10

Underground Lounge – Cancersmash …celebrate Erik Oldman’s birthday and the return of Sons of Ra to the stage while supporting a great cause. ALL proceeds will go to support the Cancersmash Walk N Roll Team (walking/rolling on Saturday April 25) to be donated to American Cancer Society.

Lizards Liquid Lounge - r/chicago community showcase featuring live performances by aboveandbelow, Arc Impulse Bad Bad Meow, One Season, Pink Monkey, The Roarer and Sure Fire Groove.
7p / $5 donation

April 19:
Double Door – Fly America presents – Mark Battles and Derek Luh performing live on stage!
7p / AA / $15

April 20:
Rock out with The Ivorys, Repeat Repeat, Sleepy Kitty and The Van Goghs
7:30p / $8 / $5 with rsvp on http://www.do312.com.

April 21:
SouthSide turns another year along with Rob Smith (The Cure) Iggy Pop, Queen Elizabeth …it’s her real birthday!

Red Line Tap – Check out Top Shelf Lickers as this local band rocks the stage during IPO (International Pop Overthrow) along with The Fox & The Hounds, Homer Marrs, The Excellent Adventure, No Love For Linus, Mike Vanderbilt and The Suburban Garage Sound

April 22:
Door No.3 – it’s another edition of FABITAT with resident DJs Adam El and Ldy Prblms with drag performances by Lucy Stoole and Curlene Ribbon
9p / FREE

Double Door – it’s another Sweetwater Session featuring live performances by cLOUD 9, Zaramela, Midwest Hype and Blaise B
8p / FREE with rsvp on http://www.do312.com.

April 23:
Celebrate Throwback Thursday with Honest Colin as Green Day (performing Dookie Album), Bicycle Tricycle as Tommy James and The Shondells, The Midnight Special as Steely Dan and Guns & Ammunition as The Ramones!
8p / $8 / FREE with rsvp on http://www.do312.com / $18 VIP

April 24:
Double Door – Get your Electro Reggae Jam 03 on, mon …featuring Down Sound, DJ Ringo, Kinky P with special guests Fada Dougou, Zion Iyahbinghi, Brazil and live dancers …hosted by Cosmos Ray and MC Zulu.
9p / $8 with rsvp on http://www.do312.com / $15 door / FREE before 10p!

The Mid – Alison Wonderland makes her debut at this hip club in celebration of the debut album and world tour.

SPACE (Evanston, IL) – Joseph LeMay will be performing songs off his debut album “Seventeen Acres” while opening for Sean Watkins

April 25:
House of Blues (Chicago) – It’s Spandau Ballet’s “Soul Boys of the Western World” tour!
17+

Reggie’s Rock Club – Get groovy with Passafire featuring Indigosun and Stranger
8p / 17+

Beat Kitchen – El Famous will be rockin’ and celebrating their album release along with Daylight Dawns, Eighty Six Happiness, The Streets and Sky Machine!

Subterranean – Dallas, TX band Dead Flowers bring their national tour here for some rock and fun!

The Mid – Celebrate Green Velvet’s Birthday with special guests Hannah Wants.

April 26:
Bada Brew (Crest Hill, IL) – Get your rock on when seeing Sworn Enemy with Wretched, Dark Sermon and Hammer Fight!

Door No.3 – It’s Sunday School Sessions …preaching to the soul of Chicago through house music with resident DJs Mathis Rousseau and Natural Selection.
10p / FREE

April 29:
Schuba’s – Rock out with Razorhouse along with The Great Crusades and Steve Stone
$8

Door No.3 – ROUGE! Chicago’s Premier Night of Electro Swing with DJs Vourteque and Mr. Automatic and resident performer Lady Lennox.
9p / FREE

Red Line Tap – Check out Bang Tango performing live with Chronic Edge, Teeze and Kevin Lee & The Links
$7 adv / $10 dos

April 30:
The Second City: Up Comedy Club (230 W. North Av) – Chicago Dance Institute and World Wide Orphans are hosting an inaugural benefit featuring Improv All-Stars with cocktails, reception and comedic performances.
6:30p

Sulzer Public Library – Spend an evening of enjoying classical guitar and more featuring performances by Ben McMunn, Adam Hendricks, Anne Waller, Brandon Acker, Joel Spears and Brian Torosian.

6p / FREE / AA


Until next time, support your local scene,
SouthSide

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

LGBT Equality Institute 2015

“…the battle still remains …the challenge is still there…” ~ US Senator Dick Durbin

Hey, blogspot readers, in case you didn’t know …SouthSide is a proud (hard-working, scene queen) single mom of two …a transgender son and bi daughter. And guess what? She’s very cool with that! She loves and supports them both.

That being said, during a recent weekend, she spent her Saturday at the annual LGBT Equality Institute conference session at the Hyatt Regency Chicago. This two-day event was sponsored by her equally hard-working friends at Equality Illinois as well as PFLAG, Lambda Legal, ALCS (Aids Legal Council of Chicago), Human Rights Campaign and many others who are out there (no pun intended) striving and working for the betterment of gay rights and civil liberties.

(Actually, it’s human rights, blogspot readers, but SouthSide will save that argument for another time…)

This two-day conference brought together allies (political and community) and supporters of and within the LGBT community to discuss important issues affecting them such as school to healthcare to equality rights to homelessness and more. Issues in which likeminded people are striving to find goals or solutions …networking with others and making relationships in the end. Today’s session opened with a few remarks by Mitch Lawson who introduced the group to the morning’s speaker US Senator Dick Durbin who bluntly stated that “…there’s going to be resistance…” within the federal level because of both houses of Congress are Republican-controlled. Also, he warned us not to “…think LGBT issues are safe…”, blogspot readers, since they are not. Look at recently happened in Indiana with the Religious Freedom Restoration Act – a law that basically gives individuals as well as businesses the right to refuse and or deny services to anyone who’s gay, lesbian, etc. Those services could include something simple like ordering food at a diner or complex or even medical like emergency care or getting a check up because the person sexual orientation offends another’s religious belief or religion. The LGBT community and it allies are facing a tough uphill battle, blogspot readers, right here in Illinois as the IL Supreme Court will soon decide issues pertaining to the Marriage Equality law. Sen Durbin promises to be there to watch the arguments as he told us what we have on the agenda is what we will have to fight for.

With a challenge given to us, it was time for the morning’s panel discussion – The New Agenda for LGBT Youth, blogspot readers, featuring speakers State Representative Kelly Cassidy (of the 14th District, Chicago), Jane (mother) and James (brother) of Tyler Clementi Foundation, and Cassandra Avenatti of Project Fierce Chicago. One thing …actually people who were missing and not represented in this discussion – the youth. There should have been a few representing the LGBT youth since after all – this was panel discussion about what’s effecting the gay youth community today to which SouthSide there are other issues that’s needed to be discussed besides homelessness and bullying. IL Rep Cassidy (whose district includes the diverse Chicago neighborhoods – Rogers Park and Edgewater) is currently sponsoring the conversion therapy ban and told the group how it “…doesn’t cease to amaze…” the hatred is projected towards gay people. She encouraged everyone to stay engaged and stay fighting as well as supporting our LGBT community as allies. Then, we heard the story aboutTyler Clementi’s (a Rutgers University student) suicidal death. It was very tragic especially for his mother, blogspot readers, but all too common one when his college roommate bullied him after videotaping him in a sexual act with his lover. The video was then tweeted and re-tweeted across the web. Meanwhile his brother told the group how he had a hard time coming out to his parents because he was concerned how they would react …wondering if they would accept him as a gay teen too. Bullying has significantly changed since SouthSide was a kid. It’s 24/7 because there’s an audience via websites like YouTube, Facebook, Tumblr, Twitter, and many more watching …re-posting as well as re-tweeting to their friends who then probably to their friends’ friends and so on so forth. Just remember – bullying does NOT build character …it tears it down until the victim does harms to themselves. Both Jane and James (along with Mr. Clementi, her husband; his father and others) work very hard through the Tyler Clementi Foundation to make sure there are no more Tylers and to “…put an end to on and offline bullying…” SouthSide highly recommends checking out this organization for more details as well as supporting the work they do in stopping youth bullying and harassment at http://www.tylerclementi.org.

Cassandra Avenatti is part of the coalition that’s working on the conversion therapy ban in Indiana but here in Chicago, she’s working hard addressing the issue of youth homelessness at her organization – Project Fierce Chicago (http://www.projectfiercechicago.org). Her opening remarks about youth being on the panel since adults are talking about youth issues (as this reviewer pointed out earlier) got a huge response from not only SouthSide but from the rest of the group. She pointed out that growing up in western Indiana as a gay person was dangerous …even being a non-white, non-Christian and or not straight life would not be safe for you. “…bullying in general is a power struggle…” were her remarks on the subject but she also addressed other issues in which LGBT youth are facing today like family acceptance and rejection (which could lead to drug and alcohol abuse …not finishing school and ultimately suicide). She added that parents of LGBT youth should be brought into the conversation because we as parents sometimes do things we think is best for our children yet our children may not see it that way and will think of it as rejection/non-acceptance, blogspot readers.

All of these issues – are simply not LGBT issues. No. In fact, they connect everyone by class, gender, religious, social, economic, et al …for example – homelessness affects everyone, blogspot readers. It’s not just a “gay” problem …it’s a social problem because it doesn’t discriminate based on sex, gender, orientation, color, religion etc. Other topics briefly discussed during the panel discussion included bullying since it’s a “hot” topic these days. Even SouthSide’s teen daughter was a victim of bullying at her school recently when two students said to others at the lunch table “…look at the two lesbians…” (talking about her and her friend). Luckily, the matter was handled immediately due the school’s anti-bullying policy before SouthSide had a chance to deal with the matter herself. The IL law (modeled after the New Jersey law which is also known as the New Jersey Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights Act) clearly defines what bullying is, how to deal with it, what to do if bullying occurs and etc – some school districts have policies and some didn’t while a handful had a one-sentence policy at first. Now, here in Illinois, blogspot readers, ALL school districts are required to have some sort of anti-bullying policy in place for the school calendar year. The subject of homelessness was touched briefly however Cassandra told the group that Project Fierce was purchasing a transitional home (to house up to 12 youths) to help alleviate the emergency housing that’s currently needed for LGBT youth to which she also addressed the necessity for schooling and jobs for the youth too. The morning panel session ended with how can we, blogspot readers, get involved. Besides voting, there’s communicating with others “…people meeting [other] people…” “…support our LGBT youth…” was James Clementi’s advice to the group. We need to “…let them know they’re safe…” and as parents, we need to know the warning signs if our children are being bullied. Cassandra added her suggestion of donating time and resources …volunteer and advocating of being “…that person…” that ally. “...straight people, stand up when you see bullying…” meanwhile “…gay people, stand up when seeing racism happening…” Profound words of advice everyone should live by…

SouthSide’s first session took her to the Acapulco mini conference room for Equality South of I-80 in which she learned about the happenings and concerns of the LGBT community south of Chicago city limits. Hosted by Dr. Jonna Cooley (of Phoenix Center) and Marcus Fogliano (President of Peoria Proud), the discussion informed this reviewer of the uphill struggles having a GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) group in high schools. Some districts in central and southern Illinois will say “…if we allow a GSA group, what’s to stop us from allowing a KKK group…” since GSA groups are few and far between …people have to travel great distances just to attend meetings and/or get services and support. This problem also makes it difficult to work with other groups within the 70+ counties south of I-80. Despite that difficulty, groups like Peoria Proud and Phoenix Center host seasonal events for the LGBT community like Out-N-Proud events (once a month activities sponsored by Peoria Proud) or youth group meetings for LGBT youth ages 13 - 17 (every Friday night from 6 -10p) or Springfield PrideFest Club La Cage (happening on april 18, 2015) sponsored by Phoenix Center. The known groups are located in Bloomington, Normal, Peoria, and SIU – Carbondale. Luckily, there are 17+ churches in this region that gladly welcome LGBT worshippers to its doors for Sunday services. For more information about Phoenix Center, visit http://www.phoenixcenterspringfield.org or for more information about Peoria Proud, visit http://www.peoriaproud.org.

Before enjoying a delicious lunch inside the main conference room, SouthSide checked out The Legacy Walk display, the world’s only outdoor LGBT museum walk that’s located between Bradley and Melrose along north Halsted aka Boystown. The Legacy Project is an award-winning Chicago-based non-profit organization committed to researching and celebrating the contributions of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) people to world history and culture. This outdoor exhibit is continuously growing that currently features thirty (30) bronze memorial makers aftixed to the “Rainbow Pylons” along Halsted defining the area as the cultural and business center of Chicago’s large diverse LGBT community. During the tow-day conference, participants were able to view a tiny sample of the exhibit as well as the notable 2015 Legacy Candidate for Induction. The candidates featured such notable names like George Washington Carver (Botanist, Agronomist, Educator, Inventor), Frances Perkins (US Secretary of Labor – the woman who gave working people the notion of the 40-hr work week), Leonard Bernstein (composer and conductor), Josephine Baker (Civil Rights Activist and Entertainer – the woman who refused to sit in the back of the Savoy restaurant in 1930) and Grant Wood (iconic artist for his painting American Gothic) …just to name a few, blogspot readers. SouthSide highly recommends checking out this exhibit when the weather is warmer and sunnier …a good educational tool for the youths all ages, gender and orientation as well as for adults. This reviewer plans on taking her daughter during the weekend. For more information about this outstanding project, visit http://www.legacyprojectchicago.org.

During lunchtime, conference participants were briefed on the happenings from the U.S. Department of Justice’s Jonathan J. Smith (Senior Counsel, Office of the Assistant Attorney General, Civil Rights Division) which also featured some remarks from Equality Institute’s sponsor Coca Cola. He first told the group that 2015 makes the 50th anniversary of the 1965 Voter’s Rights Act, the 25th anniversary of the People with Disabilities Act and 5th anniversary of the Matthew Sheppard Hate Crime Prevention Act. He stated the Department of Justice works hard to protect the rights of all LGBT workers and prohibits discrimination based on sex and sex-based (i.e. gender identity) “…our existing laws protects all people including LGBT…”  He also mentioned that the department is also working on discrimination in housing, education, and employment not just marriage, blogspot readers.

After the lunchtime briefing, it was time to begin the long afternoon of sessions. SouthSide attended the Transgender Issues 101 for further education into understanding her son more. This session went deeper than what she sat through during last year’s Transgender 101 session. “…everyone’s unique...” was the theme of the session as participants learned about gender binary (growing up in the orientation you’re expected to be since birth- male or female), gender reality (how we express our sexual orientation …it’s not biological, it’s cultural and or societal), gender identity (the gender someone ids with), gender expression (the way your gender is expressed) sexual orientation and sex assigned (which happens at birth …either born male or female). It was a very information session that thoroughly helped SouthSide understand a few transgender definitions and why some people don’t like using the word “transition” since they feel have always been male or female without changing surgically as well as the meaning of cisgender to terms that are considered “violent” (i.e. terms not used amongst the LGBT community any more such as she-male/he-female) even though in the UK “transsexual” still means “cross-dresser”.

Besides the terms, there are major issues effecting the Transgender community like violence and abuse (they are more likely to experience violence in home, street, healthcare settings) and poverty/homelessness (they are four [4] times likely than the general population to live in poverty). It was noted that transgender people are likely to be uninsured and or seek preventive health care …about 6400 respondents who identified as transgender have attempted suicide …and the most serious – new HIV infections are amongst transgender people …much higher for transwomen and transwomen of color. There’s also employment discrimination where transpeople experience unemployment at twice the rate than the general population …especially transpeople of color in which they have the highest. Lastly, over 45% transpeople have reported being harassed or faced lost of employment. SouthSide wished this session was at least 2 or 3 hours long because there was SO much information the speakers had for the participants that the 1hr and 15 minute time frame wasn’t enough and they had to skip over a few things. They weren’t able to go into detail about mental health issues that occurs with transgender people or about substance abuse and prevention. Looking forward to attending this particular again next year, blogspot readers.

After taking a mini break between sessions, it was time for SouthSide to improve her networking skills at the Networking 101 class where she had to introduce and speak briefly about herself in front of a group of people. There easy for her but for some people there’s anxiety associated when it comes to networking or interacting with other people. The session speakers Michael and Chris told us that we should set goals for ourselves to help make networking with others a little easier because it doesn’t hurt to go to an event with a purpose in mind. For a successful networking goal, one should find an ice breaker or commonality you might have with the person (s) you want to network with …compliments work too. “…people love compliments…” Other techniques include reading body language and eavesdropping – two certain ways of making your presence known to the person you want to talk to. During this fun session, we were given advice on how to (politely) excuse ourselves from a group conversation or tips on what to do when you’re attending an event and you don’t know anyone there (that has happened to SouthSide plenty of times!). Here’s a tip – want to mingle at a social event? Simply go where the food and drinks are. People at some point will visit the bar and or food station …easy to strike up a conversation then. However, do remember to limit your alcohol intake. No one likes a drunk conversationalist at a public event. Then, we were taught how to continue building relationship beyond the event/conference like sending a follow-up email or phone call …handwritten letter works too, blogspot readers. “…it’s very important to be organized with your network…” and with so many online tools (i.e. Facebook, Skype, Twitter, et al), you should have no problem maintaining that networking relationship. Yet what if you can’t find a commonality with the person you want to network with, well – research your subject …still take a business card – never hurts to take a business card for future reference.

Well …that was a tiny sample of the happenings at this year’s Equality Institute, blogspot readers. It was exciting as well as very informative for SouthSide as she learned to become a better LGBT parent, supporter and ally. She does suggest having LGBT youths to participate (their voices and concerns should be heard too) and some closing remarks to keep participants inspired and fired up for next year’s conference.

See you next year…


Until next time, support your local scene,

SouthSide

Saturday, March 28, 2015

Martyrs (2008)

Martyrdom... 

...how does one achieve it, the highest status of death that goes beyond death? Is it only when religiously persecuted …or suffering the final stages of an incurable disease …or could it be obtained through submission by intense sadomasochistic torture?

Interesting question based on a very terrifying, spellbinding French/English subtitled psychological horror movie – Martyrs (2008) written and directed by Pascal Laugier …starring Morjana Alaoui, Mylene Jampanoi with Catherine Begin as Mademoiselle. And believe SouthSide, this movie is NOTHING like you’ve ever seen or witnessed before, blogspot readers.

Its opening scenes will instantly grab the senses as you watch a bloodied young girl running out of an abandoned factory-type building screaming …after escaping whatever unspeakable horrors that was inflicted on her. Now jump ahead, fifteen years later, a family about to sit down and have breakfast when they are unexpectedly yet brutally murdered (via double barrel shotgun) by the victim as an act of revenge against the “mother” and “father” for torture they inflicted on her. Her companion, named Anna, doesn’t fully understand why her friend would want to kill this family but after being kidnapped and then told why by an even mysterious character only known as Mademoiselle – she begins her journey into the hellish weeks (perhaps months) of beatings and deprivation until having to face the final challenge…

SouthSide should pause for a moment to warn you, blogspot readers. If you have a weak stomach or can’t handle the graphic violence/horror in this movie so wonderful projects, then stop reading this review now.

Martyrs is definitely for the weak …it takes a very strong stomach and willing mind to handle the terrifying acts of violence and psychological reasoning of why this mysterious group of people are torturing, beating, et al these women into achieving that martyrdom status. Their sadomasochistic rituals of routinely brutal torture was somewhat tough to handle but also very much excitedly arousing. Getting one’s face slapped did bring out the fuzzy warm feelings in SouthSide yet in the final moments when facing the final test – WOW …never saw that coming but should have since after what Anna endured to achieve the status, this reviewer would have probably done the same. Sorry, blogspot readers, this reviewer won’t be revealing what Anna experienced at the moment when the “surgeon” removed her skin and…

OMG – what does she tell Mademoiselle upon achieving that bliss?

We will never know, blogspot readers, unless you’re an expert at reading lips.

Yep, SouthSide will stop here …again. Martyrs holds NOTHING back as far as the violence goes, blogspot readers. If you’re like her, your body will jump at each intense moment throughout …but will certainly enjoy the well-crafted plot that’s a brilliantly conceived nightmare brought to reality. Is it a horror masterpiece? In this reviewer’s opinion, yes it is. Take away the brutality and horror, you still have the macabre of a mysterious group’s morbid taste in torturing innocent women to the point of death and the psychological emotions running high during the 1 hour and 39 minute runtime. For example, a kidnapped-tortured victim that Anna discovers underneath the house is wearing a crude metal chastity belt and metal blindfold that’s nailed into her head. SouthSide dares you to try not sitting still when watching Anna prying the nails out of her skull to take off the blindfold. It’s one of MANY scenes that will have you gripping the edge of your seat for dear life. Besides the intensity of the horror and such, there’s a bit of lightheartedness that comes before the shocking end, blogspot readers. You really have to respect their sense of compassion and willingness to have a “funeral service” for Anna.

You won’t find Martyrs in the regular DVD section at your local library (that’s where SouthSide found this movie) …but do try the Foreign section because the movie is French-Canadian made. This reviewer doesn’t know if there’s a tamer “R” rated version of this particular movie however a true psychological horror fan would definitely enjoy viewing the unrated version.


It’s a SouthSide “triple A plus movie”…


Until next time, support your local scene,
SouthSide

Friday, March 6, 2015

Upcoming Events

Hey, blogspot readers, check out the following shows happening soon...

From 17-19 in July 2015 in Louisville, KY, it's FORECASTLE - a music, art and activism event that will feature live performances by Sam Smith, My Morning Jacket, Modest Mouse, Cage The Elephant, Tweedy, Portugal. The Man, Gaslight Anthem, Milo Greene, The Revivalists, Empires and many, many more.
For more information and tickets, visit http://www.forecastlefest.com.

Guess what Chicago, MXPX and Five Iron Frenzy will be performing a show together at Concord Music Hall on May 8 along with Kristopher Roe from the Ataris! SouthSide hears this show is guarantee to sell out ...so get your tickets now!
AA / 6p doors
http://www.concordmusichall.com for tickets and information.

On May 10, the band will play but you have to sing, blogspot readers, during Punk Rock Karaoke at Cobra Lounge! From Social Distortion to Bad Religion to NOFX and more, this band (featuring Greg Hetson, Stan Lee, Ed Tater and Derek O'Brien) will be your background music while you stand on stage being the "rock star" ...if you dare. Tickets are on sale now.
Sorry, kids, this is a 21+ show.

John Cooper Clarke, infamous for his combinations of custom crafted poetry, sharp satirical wit, melancholic language and hilarious political puns, will be making his way back to North America in over 35 years with a 10 city tour kicking off in Las Vegas and ending in Toronto. This poet, movie star, rock star and comedian who collaborated and toured with such legendary bands and artists like The Clash, The Sex Pistols, Elvis Costello and Alan Ginsberg will be performing here in Chicago on May 5 at Lincoln Hall.

Delicate Steve will be releasing a new album "Live In Las Vegas" as well as touring North America with stops scheduled in Baltimore, MD, Austin, TX (for SXSW), Los Angeles and Claremont, CA. Chicago fans catch see this songwriter and multi-instrumentalist Steve Marion at the Beat Kitchen on April 1. For more information and tickets, visit http://www.delicatesteve.com.

Last Rites presents Covenant sharing the stage on Saturday April 11 at Abbey Pub with The Labrynth and DJ Scary Lady Sarah!
7p / $16 adv / $20 dos / 17+
For tickets, visit http://www.abbeypub.com.


Get your tickets now before the show/event sells out!


Until next time, support your local scene,
SouthSide